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My BF gets invited to parties all the time, I don’t. It’s ofc completely okay when it’s with his study friends etc, but tonight (and many other times) it’s with a lot of my friends too. I don’t see Why they wouldn’t invite me aswell.. this has happened quite a few times now and he usually ends up going even if I’m not and feel bad for it. Tonight my besties sisters invited me and my BF to a surprise party for her, which he said no to bc he’s already going to the other party and also a Pre party which I’m also not invited to. It makes me feel so bad I just needed to get it out of my chest. Had to cry a bit in the bathroom
Am I overreacting or do you think he should come with me or even ask the host if I can come along? It seems kinda weird to me that he chose the other party without me over my best friends birthday.

Sorry for the rant, I feel a bit better now
I would just both go to the separate parties tbh..

I do understand the pain of not being invited though
does your boyfriend ask the arranger of the party if you can come? because he can invite you right?

if he doesnt ask about you also coming to the party, i totally understand if you feel sad. i would 1000% be sad aswell :(<3

you dont deserve that
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it does sound weird
Slimelie wrote:
does your boyfriend ask the arranger of the party if you can come? because he can invite you right?

if he doesnt ask about you also coming to the party, i totally understand if you feel sad. i would 1000% be sad aswell :(<3

you dont deserve that
He has offeret to do so, but has never done it. I feel super embarassed to be at social events I didn’t get invited to in the first place so I’d rather not.. its a friend group Where they have most likely thought about me while inviting, so there had to be a teasen they didn’t.. It makes me insecure
I understand your sad about, I would be hurt too.
I think it's weird you never get invited to the parties, maybe your BF should ask sometimes if he can bring you along.

However, I would also like to add that some people follow the principle of attending what they got invited to first even if something else pops up. So your BF may just follow that principle and thats why he is choosing the other party over your besties.

I think you should have a talk with him if you want to attend more parties together, so he knows how you feel and he can take you into account
Smells sus to me ngl
you're not overreacting!
thats super awkward, rude and mean what

ALSO idk if i were invited to a party where my partner knew people from OR were friends with, id totally ask if he could come too???